I got an ace ring yesterday. It’s made of obsidian, actually silver sheen obsidian, but the silver sheen is only visible on parts of the ring and none of those parts happened to be showing on this photo.
I really like it and the reason I choose to wear it is because it’s a reminder to myself that I’m not broken or flawed for being asexual and that there is others like me and none of us are wrong in any way. So, yes, it’s a reminder that I’m okay as I am, not only by being asexual, but being me as the whole person me. And since it’s just very recently that I’ve begun to accept the fact that I’m asexual, this feels very important to me, that I can get reminded that I’m not broken/flawed/wrong because of that when I need to.